When Is Too Much Enough?

There are a few within the affiliate marketing industry who appear to have their hands in many pies. They turn up to every event and seem to have jobs, be affiliates and be advisors to others. This made me ponder when does a lifestyle like this become too much? You will eventually wear yourself out, and get a name for yourself as the affiliate bike. Going to everything and getting involved with everything cannot be healthy by any means.
Some people say affiliate marketing is like 'a family' and certain people who have been in the industry a while seem very close knit. There are indeed affiliate families. But is this too much. Is it healthy to be so involved with your work that it takes over your life? You work affiliate marketing, breathe affiliate marketing, and if you ever leave the house to see friends or family, they too are involved in affiliate marketing.
Without external interests and friends and hobbies do you feel consumed by affiliate marketing? Do you feel like it has become everything you are about? Yes, you make your money this way... But is money everything. So when is the point when too much affiliate marketing is enough?